Granite Reflections

I have put together a closed Facebook group named Granite Reflections. This is a virtual book and article discussion group for NH librarians. The purpose of the discussion is to explore and discover personal and professional meanings in various text through interaction with others in the group. It is Not to win an argument or to amuse others in the group.

I have posted an article as a post in the group (and attached) that is available on Ebsco from April 1, 2019 The Library Journal The Book Club Experience by Barbara Hoffert.

If you would like to join this closed Facebook group (sorry non-Facebook users) friend my work page https://www.facebook.com/deborah.dutcher.92 and I will add you to the closed group.

Articles and books we will discuss should be generally library themed. I am hoping for some good and hopefully helpful in someway discussions in a safe place.

Libraries and Summer Food

From Chair Janet Ingraham Dwyer, CSLP’s Child and Community Well-Being Committee:

The CSLP’s Child and Community Well-Being Committee (CCWB) has created two resources to support and facilitate public library participation in the Summer Food Service Program (SFSP) and other ways to help connect kids and teens with healthy food when school is out.  

One is an online Libraries and Summer Food how-to guide now available on the CSLP website. The other is a two-sided Summer Meals factsheet for libraries, featuring key statistics about child hunger and SFSP, brief talking points for library involvement, and a brief step-by-step guide to determining SFSP eligibility and getting started.

Thanks to the CCWB Committee for these resources. State reps and SLA staff on this committee include chair Janet Ingraham Dwyer,

Rebecca Antill, Chris Farrar, Lisa Hechesky, Danielle Margarida, April Mazza, Sharon Rawlins, and Carrie Sanders. Big shout-out to Danielle who researched, compiled, and designed the Summer Meals factsheet.

The Libraries and Summer Food how-to guide link and description and fact sheet are below. Please share both widely. As the factsheet notes, only a small fraction of children and teens who receive free school meals also participate in summer meal programs. There is so much unrealized potential, and so many kids needlessly going without in the summer. Thank you for everything you do to encourage libraries to participate in SFSP or other activities that support child well-being.

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Libraries and Summer Food

www.cslpreads.org/libraries-and-summer-food

A how-to guide to help libraries connect kids and teens with healthy food when school is out. 

The guide begins with an overview of the Summer Food Service Program (SFSP), a federally funded, state-administered program.

Next is a checklist for libraries to determine their eligibility and take the first steps toward becoming an SFSP site.

For libraries not in geographic areas that are eligible for SFSP, or for whom SFSP is not a good fit, there’s a section on alternatives to SFSP and other ways to help. This section is also for those who don’t plan to serve food at the library, but still want to support summer feeding.

Next is a collection of tips, checklists, best practices, and innovative ideas to plan for a successful summer, from space considerations, to programming, to staffing, and more, including basic talking points and additional advocacy and awareness materials to build support.

Finally, a resource list gathers links to essential and supplemental sources to help librarians connect children and teens in their communities to healthy food throughout the summer.

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Summer Food Service Program for New Hampshire Website

https://www.benefits.gov/benefit/1740

DrugRehab.com

In a 2014 study by the National Institute on Drug Abuse, nearly 25 percent of youths aged 12 to 17 admitted trying illicit drugs, and 32 percent reported alcohol use. Our hope is that families can visit our website and leave with the knowledge to prevent teen drug/alcohol abuse.

DrugRehab.com, is a web resource that provides information and support to people fighting addiction and substance abuse.
https://www.drugrehab.com/teens/
https://www.drugrehab.com/guides/parents/


Parenting Book Recommendations

Recent list from the Youth Consultants List Serve:

1, 2, 3 Magic series by Thomas Phalen (DVD is helpful)

13 Things Mentally Strong Parent Don’t Do by Amy Morin

All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood/ Jennifer Senior

Baby 411

The Baby-Led Weaning Cookbook

Baby Toddler Play by Gymboree

Be the parent, please : stop banning seesaws and start banning Snapchat : strategies for solving the real parenting problems by Naomi Schaefer Riley

The big disconnect : protecting childhood and family relationships in the digital age by Catherine Adair-Stern

Brain Rules for Baby by Dr. Medina,

Brainstorm by Daniel Siegel 

The Bully, the Bullied and the Bystander by Barbara Coloroso

The Confident Parent: A Pediatrician’s Guide to Caring for Your Little One–Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, or Yourself/ Jane Scott

Cribsheet: A Data-Driven Guide to Better, More Relaxed Parenting, From Birth to Preschool by Emily Oster

Do Less: A Revolutionary Approach to Time and Energy Management for Busy Moms (2019) by Kate Northrup

Doing Life with your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and Your Welcome Mat Out (2019) by Jim Burns, PhD

Earn It by Michael Wetter

Elevating Child Care by Janet Lansbury

Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom is Wrong—and What You Really Need to Know by Emily Oster

French Kids Eat Everything: How our family moved to France, cured picky eating, banned snacking, and discovered 10 simple rules for raising happy, healthy eaters (2012) by Karen Le Billon

Grab the Kids and Go: A Practical Guide to Your Family’s Gap Year (2017) by Taryn Ash 

Grumpy Mom Takes a Holiday: Say Good-bye to Stressed, Tired, and Anxious and Hello to Renewed Joy in Motherhood (2019) by Valerie Woerner

Happiest Toddler on the Block by Harvey Karp (DVD a must)

Have a New Kid by Friday by Kevin Leman

Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child

The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron

Hold On To Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld

Honey for a Child’s Heart by Gladys Hunt

How to Be a Happier Parent: Raising a Family, Having a Life, and Loving (Almost) Every Minute/ K.J. Dell’Antonia

How To Raise and Amazing Child the Montessori Way by Tim Seldin

How to talk so little kids will listen : a survival guide to life with children ages 2-7 by Joanna Faber & Julie King. How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk by Adele Faber.

Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction/ Catherine Pearlman

Just Because it’s not Wrong Doesn’t Make it Right by Barbara Coloroso

Kids are Worth It by Barbara Coloroso

Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature Deficit Disorder (2008) by Richard Louv

A Little Bit of Dirt: 55 Science and Art Activities to Reconnect Children to Nature (2015) by Asia Citro

The Montessori Toddler: A Parent’s Guide to Raising a Curious and Responsible Human Being (2019) by Simone Davies

Motivation Breakthrough by Richard Lavoie

No Bad Kids by Janet Lansbury

No More Mean Girls by Katie Hurley

No : why kids — of all ages — need to hear it and ways parents can say it. David Walsh

Oh, Crap! Potty Training

The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids Who are Grounded, Generous, and Smart About Money (2015) by Ron Lieber

The Orchid and the Dandelion: Why Some Children Struggle and How All Can Thrive by W. Thomas Boyce

Play, Make, Create: A Process Art Handbook (2019) by Meri Cherry


Play the Forest School Way (2016) by Jane Worroll

Playful Parenting by Lawrence Cohen

The Read-Aloud Handbook (2013) by Jim Trelease 

Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Pre-schoolers by Deborah MacNamara.

The Science of Mom: A Research-Based Guide to Your Baby’s First Year by Alice Callahan

The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud

Siblings Without Rivalry 

Simplicity Parenting by Kim Payne

Sleep Book for Tired Parents by Rebecca Huntley

Small Animals: Parenthood in the Age of Fear by Kim Brooks

Solve Your Child’s Sleep Problems

There’s No Such Thing as Bad Weather: A Scandinavian Mom’s Secrets for Raising Healthy, Resilient, and Confident Kids (from Friluftsliv to Hygge) (2017)  by Linda Akeson McGurk

Under Pressure by Lisa Damour

The Way of Boys by Anthony Rao

Weird Parenting Wins: Bathtub Dining, Family Screams, and Other Hacks from the Parenting Trenches/ Hillary Frank 

The Whole Brain by Daniel Siegel 

Wide Open World: How Volunteering Around the World Changed One Family’s Life Forever (2015) by John Marshall 

Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys by Stephen James

A Year of Forest School by Jane Worroll

Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child by Daniel Siegel

You Are Your Child’s First Teacher by Rahima Baldwin.

Recommended Authors:

Dan Siegel, Janet Lansbury, Dr. David Walsh, Barbara Coloroso

General Recommendations:

Potty training books and videos will fly off the shelf.

“Safe hearts” book series is through an independent publisher but tackles many tough topics. 

https://safehearts.damselindefense.net/storybooks/

2019 Blades-Boston Bruins Mascot Library Visit Application

NH Summer Library Program & the Boston Bruins

I am happy to announce that the Boston Bruins will be promoting reading again this year in New Hampshire. We are accepting applications for your library to have a storytime visit with Blades, the Boston Bruins mascot. Top readers program information is coming soon, but be sure to fill out the attached application for a Blades library visit asap—deadline is May 10th. I will accept electronic submissions.

New and Fun Picture Books

Two books recently crossed my desk that I thought were fun.

Never Trumpet with a Crumpet by Amy Gibson and Illustrated by Jenn Harney

A vocabulary rich rhyming book about manners. Zoo animals add to the fun with illustrations of them doing their best to follow the etiquette advice.

vocabulary, phonological awareness

social awareness, self management, relationship skills

  • Publisher: Boyds Mills Press (May 14, 2019)
  • ISBN-13: 978-1629793047

Like a Lizard by Amy Gibson and illustrated by Stephanie Laberis

28 different lizard species run, sun, swoop, scoop and more in this non-fiction book that could easily be adapted to a movement part of a storytime. Can you “do a pushup like a lizard?”

  • Publisher: Boyds Mills Press (March 12, 2019)
  • ISBN-13: 978-1629792118

FREE WORKSHOP: Setting the Tone: Creating a Culturally Responsive Environment

FREE WORKSHOP: Setting the Tone: Creating a Culturally Responsive Environment

When: Friday, May 31 9:30-11:30

Where: Municipal Association Building Concord

What: Workshop Setting the Tone: Creating a Culturally Responsive Environment

Who: NH Teen Institute

Cost: FREE  NH State Library – Intentional Family Engagement Initiative  

       Funding Provided by Endowment for Health

•Staff will leave with an understanding of how to create a culturally competent environment, even if there is not a lot of visible diversity in their center, school, community, etc.

• Staff will leave with language to engage children in discussions without telling them how to think or feel.

• Staff will leave with tools to help children discover and explore each other’s similarities and differences in safe and fun ways.

Register to attend here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeWMgwPQbfp-984kBxwfC63NHSA4JOuJctvvV7Wf1LKmTyrSw/viewform?usp=sf_link